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The term male feminization has been used to refer to a range of sexual arousal practices and alternative lifestyle activities involving exchange of gender roles in relationships.

Submissive male feminization is a life altering behavior modification technique.

Feminization as an alternative lifestyle preference is a fetish

As an alternative lifestyle desire or fetish activity Feminization is a person's voluntary transformation from male to female, either physically, behaviorally, or both. This transformation can either be permanent, or temporary. Additionally, this transformation can be something that the male goes through only in private (temporarily - fetish) or in public, temporarily or permanently.

Transgenderism and crossdressing can be types of feminization, but these are not all inclusive. There are many other feminization type activities such as Hypnotic Feminization and Forced Feminization.

Forced Feminization as a sexual arousal practice

In erotic and psycho-sexual terms, Forced Feminization (a.k.a. "sissification") is sometimes used to describe the practice, especially in female dominance, of switching the gender role of a male submissive. It is usually achieved through crossdressing, where the male is dressed in intimate female attire, ranging from just wearing female undergarments to being fully dressed in intimate feminine scent. Some males take on tasks, behaviours and roles that are overtly feminine, and adopt female mannerisms and postures in task such as sitting, walking and acting in a feminine counterpart manner.

"Forced Feminization" is when the man is told to put on women's clothes and instructed how to behave and talk. What makes this fantasy relationship difficult to understand is that the submissive male (while pretending to be reluctant) actually wants this treatment. Their protests and demands for the treatment to stop are often surface deep, while their sexual arousal and deepest fantasies crave the fantasy relationship to continue with even more intensity. This emasculation technique may be coupled with punishments such as spanking or caning to gain cooperation and heighten submission of submissive male. In practice, the man has consented to the feminization. Probably the most common modern incident of true "forced feminization" is sexual arousal slavery in prisons (although the rate of prison rape is controversial). For this reason it is not uncommon that men with "forced feminization" fantasies also enjoy "prison rape" fantasies, although there are some heterosexual men who only have interest in feminization by women. Additionally, statistics have shown that many homosexual or bisexual men enjoy gay pornography, with the single exception being feminization or other scenarios that puts women in the "dominant" role.

Costumes are sometimes very domestic, suggestive of servitude or ageplay. The clothes may be those of a traditional submissive female role, such as schoolgirl, secretary or "sissy" maid. In certain cases the feminized or sissified male can also be restrained in devices such as posture collars, locking high heels, and locking dresses. Traditional bondage restraints may also be used to immobilize the male in helpless and exposed positions or to prepare the male for corporal punishment or anal penetration. Such control techniques are used by the dominant female to impress upon the male his submission to be life altering behavior modification and feminization.

Naming may also be employed. Feminization can also involve the conversion of a masculine name into a feminine counterpart name such as "Stephen" into "Stephanie", "Joseph" into "Josephine" or "Daniel" into "Danielle". Although there are several irregular names that do not follow this model, such as "Samuel", which turns to "Samantha", in general, feminization of a masculine name is achieved by adding an [a] or [i] sound to the end of the male name. The submissive male may also be given a feminine counterpart name that is not similar to his male name, designated as "a good girl", or called explicitly female insults, such as "slut" or "whore". The male's flaccid penis may also be renamed a clit or clitoris and be subjected to penis chastisement, his anus as a vagina or "hole", while his nipples may be referred to as breasts.

Forced Feminization may also include the male receiving anal sexual intercourse from a female using a strap-on dildo (sometimes called pegging), or Forced Homosexuality from another male using his erect penis to accomplish oral sex (Fellatio), or by the feminized male being forced to perform oral sex (Fellatio) on the flaccid penis of another male. Another form is ejaculation control, usually through the use of a penis chastity. Feminized males may also just be receptive to partners in a pure homosexual relationship through the acts of oral sex (Fellatio) and anal sexual intercourse.

Crosdressing or pinaforing, is a kind of roleplay or sexual arousal fantasy that revolves around a male being dressed as a girl in front of his mother, sisters, or in some cases, girls of his own age whom he had offended by his boorish behavior.

There is evidence that forced feminization, where boys are made to dress as girls, has occasionally been used as a form of discipline. However, within feminization crossdressing roleplay this is usually heavily exaggerated, including elaborate humiliation and public nudity.

Feminization roleplay may include being forced to wear makeup and to carry dolls, purses, and other items associated with girls. Sometimes, boys were made to perform tasks that they considered to be "girls' work" and to appear in public in girls' clothing with their mothers, who occasionally dressed in matching outfits. Some people claim that for the mothers, feminization sometimes had a sexual arousal context, and many mothers who disciplined their sons in this fashion either had long wanted daughters or found it erotic to feminize their sons. In addition, according to the folklore of people with this condition, this type of castigation is found in the history of some of those who later develop Transvestic fetishism through penis chastisement.

Feminization discipline also occurs in the context of some marital relationships, as a means by which a wife may exert control over her husband and force him to crossdress and render him temorarily impotent with a latex rubber catheter. This may involve various items of intimate feminine attire or underwear in a variety of contexts like the intimate feminine scent to induce sexual arousal, ranging from the husband having to wear a feminine apron around the house whilst performing household chores, to the wife insisting that the husband wears a brassiere on a full-time basis under ordinary male clothing. In all such circumstances, there is a strong reliance on the element of humiliation, whether actual or potential, should the husband's secret be discovered that he has a flaccid penis> even though he can still ejaculate.

This life altering behavior modification alternative relationship revolves around the male frequently being made to appear nude, before being dressed as a feminine counterpart, either in front of his mother, his sisters, or, in some cases, girls of his own age whom he had offended by his boorish behavior.

Erotic humiliation is the consensual use of feminization in a sexual arousal context, whereby one person gains sexual arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being feminized and demeaned, or of feminzation another; often (but not always) in conjunction with sexual arousal of one or both partners in the activity. The feminization need not be sexual intercourse in itself, as with many other sexual arousal activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. It can be verbal or physical, and can be relatively private or public. Often it can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual arousal variations it can also be easily carried out over a long distance or online. The distinction between feminization and dominance in an activity such as erotic spanking is that the sought-after effect is primarily the humiliation; the activity is just a means to that end.

Whilst mild or moderate humiliation is not an uncommon part of forced feminization or other sexual arousal roleplay, humiliation play can be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner. Erotic humiliation can become extreme enough to be considered a form of feminization, that some consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a safeword. This is a highly subjective issue, and depends greatly on context.

The person being feminized is often called a bottom, and the person who feminizes them is often called the top, (though these are standard terms used in general dominant/submissive role play and are not specific to feminization interests) or if submissive female , sometimes humiliatrix. Other common names are slave or sub/submissive for the bottom, and Master/Mistress or Dom/Domme for the top.

Feminization is not the same as dominance, as the devotee is not necessarily seeking to be ordered about. Feminization comes into its own as a sexual arousal force when the devotee seeks the humiliation over and above the means; for example, when being spanked is primarily valued because of the belittlement involved. As such, it encompasses a range of paraphilia, in particular foot fetish or shoe fetish , body worship, spanking, bondage and most BDSM styles. It can be as basic as the desire to kiss and massage feet as a precursor to sexual intercourse , or it can be complex, involving roleplay or public displays of subservience. It can also be for a set period of time (a "scene") or as an ongoing facet of a relationship. The "feminization " is not intrinsic to the act or the object. Rather, it is semiotically charged by the shared attitude of the partners engaged in the act. It is they who invest specific acts, objects or body-parts with a feminization aspect.

Feminization in general touches strong emotional buttons, the more so when it becomes sexual arousal . Because of this, consent and (paradoxically) a high degree of awareness and communication is needed to ensure that the result is desirable, rather than abusive. For example, a submissive male may enjoy being insulted in some ways, but be genuinely crushed and devastated if humiliated or insulted in other ways.

Feminization play is also connected to sexual intercourse , in that non-sexual activities may become sexual arousal by association with sexual arousal , and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being sexually aroused by others witnessing) one's sexual arousal .

As with all sexual arousal activities, some people have sexual fantasies about feminization , and others actually undertake it as a alternative lifestyle or in a scene. Sexual arousal fantasies relating to mild feminization are not uncommon. Some feminization roleplay (pup-play and age play in particular) is combined with loyalty and care-giving to the extent that these fetishes can be seen as exercises in trust rather than primarily a feminization fetish . Consider that the desire to be beneath the other partner during sexual intercourse , the idea of "getting caught" such as with having sexual intercourse in the garden or woods, or mild rape fantasies (where the person imagines themselves to be forced feminization in a way they would like, and which must be seen as completely different to any real form of rape), are mild emotional games that emphasise status, vulnerability and control. However, for most people such ideas remain a sexual arousal fantasy and they would have strong reservations about it being made public, or engaged in with a partner for real, however erotic the idea may be. If a person does reveal their fetish to their partners, this usually is a result of a huge amount of trust invested in them, due to the similarly huge psychological struggle they would have had to have gone through to tell them. Many people have the worry of being ridiculed for their fetish , and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online feminization (where the humiliator and others are involved via the internet using chat, email, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on the other.