The New Age relationship site: Exploring alternative intimacy by redefining the traditional roles between men and women.


Member Sign-In
Email:
Password:

   

Forgot My Password






Information on Sucking Cock found
on moment please....

 
sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) refers to sexual arousal activities involving the use of the mouth, and may include use of the tongue, teeth, and throat, in order to stimulate the genitalia. Cunnilingus refers to sucking cock performed on a woman while fellatio and irrumatio refer to sucking cock performed on a man. Analingus refers to oral stimulation of a person's anus. Oral stimulation of other parts of the body (as in kissing and licking) is usually not considered sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus).

People may engage in sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) as part of foreplay before sexual intercourse, or during or following intercourse. It may also be performed for its own sake for sexual gratification.

sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) may be practiced in both heterosexual and homosexual sexual contexts. In heterosexual contexts, sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) is used by some couples as a method of contraception and may be chosen as an alternative to sexual intercourse for this reason. sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) activities are not effective methods of preventing sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), although some forms of STD are believed to be less easily spread in this way.

As with mutual masturbation and other forms of outercourse many people do not consider sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) to be "sex" in the same way as penetrative intercourse and regard it as "third base." Thus, for many people, sucking cock can be seen as one way of experiencing sexual fulfillment before losing one's virginity.

Facesitting is a form of sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) in which the receiver sits on the giver's face and pushes into it with his or her genitals. sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) can be performed by both partners at the same time in the so-called "sixty-nine" position.

Spitting and/or swallowing of the ejaculation fluids or giving a pearl necklace may cause different sexual arousal stimulations. Also, eye contact, during fellatio or cunnilingus, may be very stimulating and more pleasurable because it acknowledges that a real person is performing sucking cock, not a machine or sex toy.

Cultural attitudes towards sucking cock range from disgust to reverence: in Ancient Rome, fellatio was considered profoundly taboo, whereas in Chinese Taoism, cunnilingus is revered as a spiritually fulfilling practice that is believed to enhance longevity. In modern Western culture, some people have reservations about sucking cock, but it is nevertheless widely practiced.

In pre-Christian Ancient Rome, sexual arousal acts were generally seen through the prism of submission and control. This is apparent in the two Latin words for the act: irrumare (to penetrate orally), and fellare (to be penetrated orally). Under this system, it was considered to be abhorrent for a male to perform fellatio, since that would mean that he was penetrated (controlled), whereas receiving fellatio from a woman or another man of lower social status (such as a slave or debtor) was not humiliating. The Romans regarded sucking cock as being far more shameful than, for example, anal sex - known practitioners were supposed to have foul breath nd were often unwelcome as guests at a dinner table. The practice was taboo for public health reasons, as well. In Rome, the genitals were considered to be unclean. sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) was thought to make the mouth dirty, and (ultimately) to present a public health risk.

There are many words describing sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus), including euphemisms and slang. Like all aspects of sexuality, there exists a very large number of variations on a theme, making it essentially impossible to compose a comprehensive list.

Giving head - A common slang term for giving sucking cock to either a man or woman is "giving head," from the term "head job" (in contrast to "hand job," manual stimulation). A play on the slang term "head" resulted in the slang term "brains," or "brain salad surgery," "domes," or "getting domes."

Cunnilingus is also sometimes referred to as "muff diving," "eating out," or "poon-job," a slang term and a cunnilingus variant of "blow job", where "poon" is short for poontang or punani.

Additionally, in lesbian culture several common slang terms used are "carpet munching," "giving lip," "lip service," or "tipping the velvet" (a faux-"Victorian" expression invented by novelist Sarah Waters).

Additional slang terms for sucking cock (Fellatio or Cunnilingus) include "going down on" (female and male), "licking out" (female), "blow job" (male), "dome" (female and male), "sucking off" (male), "rolling cigars" (male recipient), "lolly-gagging" (gay male-on-male), "gaining knowledge" (male recipient), and "bust down"(male).

Forced fellatio is often called "Egyptian Rape" or simply "Egyptian." This goes back to the time of the Crusades when Mamluks were alleged to force their Christian captives to do this.

Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth, lips, and tongue to stimulate the female genitals. The clitoris is particularly noted as the most sexually aroused sensitive part of the female genitalia. Shere Hite notes that most women achieve orgasm easily from clitoral stimulation as part of cunnilingus. The term comes from an alternative Latin word for the vulva (cunnus) and from the Latin word for tongue (lingua). A person who performs cunnilingus may be referred to as a "cunnilinguist".

As in all human sexual arousal behaviour, both the techniques used in cunnilingus and individual responses to them are varied.

The clitoris is the most sexually aroused sensitive part of the body for almost all women but may be too sensitive to pleasantly stimulate directly at times, especially in early stages of sexual arousal. It is often best to begin with a gentler, less focused stimulation of the labia and the whole genital area. The tip, blade, or underside of the tongue can be used, as can the nose, chin, lips and, with caution, the teeth. Movements can be slow or fast, regular or erratic, firm or soft, according to the recipient's preference. The tongue can be inserted into the vagina, either stiffened or moving. Humming to cause vibration while performing cunnilingus is often considered to be especially arousing with certain pitches, rhythms, or tunes thought to be particularly effective by different people.

Cunnilingus is easily accompanied by the insertion of finger(s) or a sex toy into the vagina, which allows for the simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, and/or into the anus, either of which many women find can produce very intense sensations. Some sex educators recommend that cunnilingus be the major element when someone makes love to a woman--not just foreplay--but this is a personal preference. Many other activities can accompany cunnilingus to enhance overall pleasure, limited only by preference, psychology, and anatomy.

Fellatio, also called fellation, is sucking cock performed upon the erect penis or flaccid penis. It may be performed to induce orgasm and ejaculation of semen, or it can be used as foreplay prior to vaginal or anal forms of sexual intercourse.

Fellatio, or, more precisely, fellating to the point of ejaculation, is commonly referred to as a blow job. Fellatio is sometimes referred to as "giving head", although this term can also apply to cunnilingus. An alternative method of sucking cock performed on men is irrumatio.

The English noun fellatio comes from fellatus, which in Latin is the past participle of the verb fellare, meaning to suck. In fellatio the -us is replaced by the -io, an alternate form of the suffix -ion. The -ion or -io ending is used in English to create nouns from Latin adjectives and indicate a state or action wherein the Latin verb is being, or has been, performed.

Further English words have been created based on the same Latin root. A person who performs fellatio upon another may be termed a fellator (or cocksucker, a term which is usually considered obscene) and blowlips. Because of Latin's gender based declension, this word may be restricted by some English speakers to describing a male. The equivalent female term is fellatrix.

Some receivers regard receiving sucking cock as an ego boost, believing that such an act is a form of dominance over their sexual arousal partner because of the overt submissive nature of the act; the giver may often be on their knees before the receiver to perform the act of pleasure. In ancient Greece, fellatio was referred to as "playing the flute"; the Kama Sutra has a chapter on oparishtaka, or "mouth congress.